Introduction
George Best was a professional footballer and is considered to be one of the greatest players of all time. However, he was also a chronic alcoholic. His son, Calum, discusses his experience of growing up with an alcoholic parent in Brought Up By Booze and travels throughout the United Kingdom to meet with other children of addiction to hear their stories as well. Calum wants to find out how parental drinking is affecting their lives and confront the impact that his father’s addiction still has on him today.
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Quotes
“Thinking about growing up, one of my strongest memories was coming to Manchester with dad when I was 11. We stayed here at my dad’s favourite hotel. Coming back, I’m reminded of how unpredictable and confusing being around an alcoholic can really be … I was left overnight not knowing where my dad had gone.”
“Understanding what adults do when they’re drunk is tough when you’re a kid. The girls I’m meeting at London Zoo have all had an alcoholic parent or relative. They have support through a self-help group called Alateen.”
“As soon as I started to get older, I was going to friend’s houses and I’d see that none of them were making their own dinner. None of them were making sure that their mom or dad was in from the pub and in bed or somewhere safe. I think it started to click with me then that there’s something wrong, but because I idolized my dad, I didn’t want to admit it.“
“Early on I found out there was a problem. I knew something was wrong but I didn’t know what it was called. I knew it was the drinking, but I didn’t know it was called ‘alcoholic’.”
YOUTH IN ALATEEN
“I actually walked into my mom’s room and found about 20-30 empty bottles of vodka just laying across the side of the bed. It scared me because I thought ‘how can anyone drink that much?’“
“You say ‘Dont let me drink’, but what can I do? I am a child so I depend on you. You can only stop yourself, so what can I do? I’m sorry now I can’t help you, I don’t know how to. You say ‘Don’t let me drink’, but what can I do?”
“It’s still hard for me to accept that alcohol took my father’s life. But some children have to say goodbye while their parents are still alive. Danielle is getting married next year but her mother won’t be there. Her mother’s drinking got out of control when Danielle was just 11 and she still drinks heavily today.”
“Over half of the people here will have children at home who have been directly affected by their addiction. For every one person addicted there’s going to be at least 3-4 people connected to them who are affected by addiction on very much the same levels as the addict.”
Continue Learning
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Alcohol Use Disorder
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- Alcohol Use Disorder (Mayo Clinic)
- Alcohol Withdrawal
- Alcoholism – Causes, Symptoms, Diagnosis, Treatment, Pathology
- Alcoholism – The Deadly Truth About Its Stigma
- Canadian Alcohol Use Disorder Society
- Canadian Guideline for the Clinical Management of High-Risk Drinking and Alcohol Use Disorder
- High-Risk Drinking and Alcohol Use Disorder
- How I Overcame Alcoholism
- Medications For the Treatment of Alcohol Dependence
- Stages of Alcoholism
- The Impact of Alcoholism on Society
- The Truth About Dopamine After Alcohol Addiction Recovery
- Why Alcohol Belongs in the Mental Health Conversation
Alcohol
- 2-Minute Neuroscience: Alcohol
- A Brief History of Alcohol
- Alcohol’s Role in Gastrointestinal Tract Disorders
- Alcohol Withdrawal Timeline
- Effects of Alcohol Use
- How Alcohol Affects Your Body
- How Alcohol Changes Your Body
- How Does Alcohol Cause Hangovers?
- How Does Alcohol Make You Drunk?
- How Is Alcohol Made and Distilled?
- How to Calculate a Standard Drink
- Is Alcohol Harming Your Stomach?
- Knowing Your Limits with Alcohol [PDF]
- Risks, Dangers, and Effects of Alcohol on the Body
- This is Why You Get Hungover
- What Are the Effects of Alcohol on the Body?
- What Effect Does Alcohol Have On Your Health — And Your Liver?
Impact on Children
- 10 Effects of Growing Up with an Alcoholic or Addict Parent
- Adult Children of Alcoholics & Dysfunctional Families
- Adult Children of Alcoholics (ACOA) Traits and Treatment
- Alateen
- Children of Alcoholics: Growing Up with an Alcoholic Parent
- How Children Cope with Alcoholic Parents
- How to Deal With Addict Parents
- How to Help an Alcoholic Parent
- Lessons from the Child of an Addict
- National Association for Children of Addiction (NACoA)
- Signs of Codependency & Addiction
- The Consequences of Growing Up Feeling Invisible
- Wasted: Exposing the Family Effect of Addiction
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